Thursday, February 27, 2014

Breaking News: Things and Stuff

Whoop!
So it's nice to hear that everything in the family is going well.
So, this week..
On Tuesday, we met with Minami-San. So she said she had a few minutes
and came over to church so we could
talk with her. (Kimura Choro was at the church, so it's was all good)
She got lost, and texted us in Japanese, telling us so. We figured it
out, and ran towards the main road, hoping that just standing by it
she might be able to see us. We were there for a couple of minutes,
worrying that she couldn't make it, or would give up, but I looked up
and I saw her in her car, just waving at us like crazy. We jogged back
to the church to show her the way.
We got inside and Kimura Shimai showed her the building. Minami said
she felt peace. We took her in the other room and taught her a lesson
with Kimura-Shimai. We started off with a prayer, and our relationship
with God, and then Kimura-Shimai and her took off in Japanese, and the
amazing thing was, I understood (just about) all of it. The problem
is, I'm not quick enough at speaking Japanese just to jump into the
conversation naturally.
Amongst the many things they talked about, I gathered that Minami-San,
had been secretly reading the Book of Mormon, and had to hide it at
her house so no one would find it, because it says "Jesus Christ" on
it in big letters.
She says she wants to keep meeting with us.. She really is amazing. I
don't know what's going to happen though. She told Kimura-Shimai
straight out that she couldn't join because of the situation she's in.
But... I don't know. The Spirit's working on her.

JAPANESE HOLIDAYS: Valentines Day
So, it may be a little late, but I'll give you a quick run down of how
Valentines Day works in Japan.
Just like America they buy little gifts and give them, but... only the
girls give gifts to boys. And the gift specifically (and usually) is
Chocolate. :)
Guys don't have to worry about anything but their calorie intake for
the holiday. (Though they have a holiday that's the opposite (where
only guys give chorolate to girls) in March. I believe it's called
White Day.)
Boden Choro and I got about five or six Valentines. Yosh.

So, I've gotten better at soccer. This last Saturday, I scored two
goals. It was intense. I shot for another three. Two were blocked, and
the last one went high. BUT THERE IS PROGRESS! Boden Choro and I were
on different teams, and one of the guys said that this next game the
losers were going to have to buy juice for the winners. Boden Choro
didn't catch the Japanese, so he was just playing like normal,
everybody else went crazy. I'm better at defense, so I hung back and
blocked some goals. It was up 3-3 and then in two minutes we scored
another two on them. Then just passed it til the time was up. It was
fun. (Though deep down I'm worried about the productivity of this.
Sure we're building our relationship with our investigator, but we're
not getting really any appointments with the other guys... so... we
might just stop, unless we can figure something out.)
Ryutaro is taking us to Sakata today to go to a restaurant by the
Ocean. :) I'm excited.... raw fish. ?
I love this mission, and I love the Lord. I've been reading Jesus the
Christ recently, and I'm getting towards the end of His life. The
calmness and tenderness (especially) in the face of trials, is an
impressive example to all of mankind. He, as tender and as innocent as
a lamb, took upon every pain and anguish for sin and weakness that
He'd perfectly avoid His whole existence. He's amazing. I'm working
hard to incorporate His character into me.
Anywho, I love you all. Thanks for writing 
Love,
Elder Wheelwright

Monday, February 17, 2014

Alright!

Here's what's going down this week. I am going to tell you a little quickly, so I can finally finish the mission prep letter. It's gonna be good. Maybe.
Boden Choro
 being eaten by a street fish
So NEW INVESTIGATOR!
That's the Japanese equivalent of three baptisms in a Spanish speak mission. :) just joking... kinda... 
Her name is Yuko-san. She's this girl who is Tsugiyama-san (our other investigator)'s friend. She's super nice, but... We're not sure if she's interested in us, or the Gospel right now. I just asked her last week if she could come an hour early to English class so we could teach her about why we're here in Japan. She accepted. We did a joint lesson, with Sister Hirayama, and Brother Nomura. Brother Nomura bore a sweet testimony, and I could tell she was interested in what he was saying. He told a story about how he worked at a noodle shop, and one day he was really tired, and his hand got caught into the noodle making machine, and 'became\turned into' a word I didn't know. I looked it up on my dictionary. It meant 'in chunks or in pieces' He showed us his scar on his wrist... Nasty. But he said that God comforted him though the pain, and other amazing stuff. I love him. 

Takeya-san came to church, but said he can only meet with us on Sundays because of the way winter affects him. He gets super tired. 

I was sitting by Takeya-san, and we were just having a light conversation about sports. He said he loved Judo, and since he was a cop in Tokyo, I assumed he was pretty good. Plus he's huge. I told him he should teach me sometime. 
He stood up. "Now," And walked to an open part of the room. 
'Well, now I done it....' was my only thought, and I pictured him breaking me in half. 
But, none the less, I let him grab my collar, and my sleeve. He showed me how to throw someone to the ground, (without throwing me to the ground thankfully) and he had me try it on him. He had me do it hard, so he almost went to the ground.
So on splits Hoops Choro and I visited Murokoshi-san. 
One of the first things she said:
"Hey, I met with some of your friends." 
"What friends?" -I asked, expecting exactly what happened. 
"Um.. they gave me a pamphlet, do you want to see?" 
She grabbed it. Hoops Choro flipped it to the back. The good old JW was looking back at us. 
"They're... a different church." Hoops Choro said. 
"Oh, well. I invited them back." She said not knowing, with a smile. "They're both Japanese, so it's pretty easy to talk with them and understand." 
Dahhhh..... It was time to activate phase two. 
We taught her about the Spirit, and helped her recognize that she's felt the Spirit's promptings before. Challenged her to read and pray to God to ask if it's true. She accepted. 
Phase two is to do a joint lesson with the Kimura Couple. So that's the plan. 
Whew... I've gotten a cold and I'm all achy all over, so... Hopefully it doesn't get worse. 
I love you all.... 
Elder Wheelwright
Us in our Oni masks



Monday, February 10, 2014

Weekly Update

Dear Minasan,
(Minasan is how you refer to "Everyone'.  There's this poor girl in our English class, whose last name is Mina... Unfortunate.)
Well, this week!
We read a children's book with Murokoshi-san. Taisetsuna kimi. (In English the book is called 'You are Special') It's the book about the little wooden puppets, and one, Punchanello, who's not very good at anything, finds out his relationship with his creator.  It's amazing.  She loved it.  We explained to her that our relationship with God is similar, that He knows our names, and He is just waiting to talk to us.
She still believes that Christ is the Savior, but Ocyaka (whoever that is?) is also a religious leader from God.  Boden Choro worked his way around and then testified that there is one God and one way.  She is caught between the two worlds.  We're just trying to build her faith, until she's ready to make the jump.
Played soccer with Ryutaro again.  A couple of the guys taught me how to do rainbow kicks etc.  Granted, I'm not very good at all but it was really fun.

Tuesday, February 4, 2014

Spring cleaning

We taught Murakoshi-san this week. We decided to back off a little bit, and build her faith in Christ a little more. (So we just don't conflict and lose her) 
So we taught her about service and shared the scripture in Mosiah. She loved it. We talked about how Christ's entire life was dedicated to serving others. She also liked that too. She showed us some of her family pictures and that really got her talking. She was surprised to find out that we were the same age as one of her grandsons. She said he couldn't ever live on his own, let alone go to another country and speak a different language. We gave her a cookie, and she gave us chocolate bars. I love it. The whole gift giving part of Japanese culture. 
We also taught Ryutaro and Mami. They invited us over for dinner and we did the whole traditional 'Oni bean throwing thing'. We showed showed them two I am Mormon videos about two fathers who considered their most important job their family. Which is a problem often times in Japan. Another one of our investigator's husband is so involved in his work that he moved to Aomori, and only comes home about once a month, if even that, to be with his wife and two daughters. I was relieved to hear from Ryutaro (roughly translated)  "Though work is important, I only do work for my family. If there ever comes a conflict between the two, family comes first. Every day after work I speed home to be with Mami." I love them both. 
Takaya-san is progressing. He said his philosophy is changing. Which is amazing. I'll update you on him later.
Pretty much I am loving my mission. I'm having fun, but doing my best to work hard and focus on the work. I could always do better, but luckily, I'm always progressing. 
There's no-place I'd rather be.
Anyways, I'll give you more detail next time. I'm exhausted. 
I love you! 
Wheelwright 長老


Japanese custom that occurs on the third day of the second month. 
It's the "Day before the first day of spring". It's not very catchy in English. 
So... Pretty much you do a spring cleaning in your house... except you cleanse it from demons... And how do you do that? Beans... 
So you have someone (some people) put on a demon mask(s), in Japanese they're called the Oni. (like "O", my "Knee".)  usually the kids put on masks. 
You throw beans at the people with the Oni masks (we used peanuts) and say  
"oni wa soto" Which means "GET OUT DEMON!" 
and then say "fuku wa uchi" which means "Come in good fortune (or happiness)"
Then you do that in every room of the house. At the very end you throw beans at the oni in the room with the door to outside, and the people with the masks go outside, and come back in without the masks.... Then you eat your age in beans... 
Why beans? Because... well. it was explained to me that they blind the oni, because they hit their eyes. 
Yep. Demon spring cleaning... do it. 

Boden Choro and Wheelwright Choro being Oni



Mami and Ryutato as Oni

Me in my Soccer stuff

Monday, January 27, 2014

This Week...

So this week some crazy things happen. Let me catch you up:
Monday we had two new people come to takkyu night. Our one
investigator Tsugiyama, and her friend Yuko. (Dear Japanese people,
don't think I'm rude because I'm not putting San and the end of
people's names. I just think it confuses people!) We're hoping to
teach Yuko soon. 
Olson Choro
She's 31 and super nice. (I think she was kinda liking Olsen Choro, but he got transferred. Also, before we left we told her we were both nineteen. You should've seen the look on her face. WHEW. She thought I was 25 or older. :) laugh. ) Tuesday, I don't recall... Oh we did weekly planning and family home evening. Boden Choro and Olsen Choro tried to get a picture of Karube-Kyodai (Kyodai means brother),
but he'd throw his arms right in front of his face right at the picture was being taken. Hilarious. Wednesday- Olsen Choro left. :( We were going to do some housing, when Boden Choro felt inclined to walk though the park. So we did. We saw a lady playing around in the snow with this 4 year old boy. We walked up to them and started talking. The crazy thing was, is she actually wanted to talk to us. Her name's Minami san, (which is easy to remember, because it's the same pronunciation as the word 'south' in Japanese) and what's weird is it doesn't have a kanji. Her name, unlike almost all Japanese, doesn't mean anything. She said she spoke some English, which usually meant that the extent of their knowledge was: if we said "Hey, how are you?" that they could say "I'm fine. Thank you." So we tested her English out. We started with the classic responses and she did well so I decided to test further- it was perfect. Her English was amazing(well toiuka, for a Japanese person.) "How did you learn to speak this well?" We asked. "I did... well, you know, kinda what you guys are doing now, except in America. In LA." "You served a Mission in America? For what church?" "Tenrikyo." "What do you believe?" "Well... It's kinda hard to explain. Come. The Shinden is five minutes away." (shinden in our religion means temple. But for tenrikyo it means church, as we came to find out.) So we walked with her and the boy to the Tenrikyo Shinden. It was crazy. She explained how they pray though this one lady called Oyasama (which means: 'Honored Parent') in order to get to god. Oyasama apparently lived in the 1800's and restored the 'true religion' to the world. Most of it didn't make sense. Then... she asked us what we believe. (We'd gone into this other part of the shinden, with other people, walking though. She told us to wait and she brought out some coffee and some rice crackers. We explained we didn't drink coffee because of our religion, and she looked shocked. "Really?... Wow. I'll bring you some green tea." (our conversation was in Nihon-glish.) We laughed, and told her we didn't drink tea either. She almost passed out. "Can you eat rice crackers and chocolate?" We told her we could. "What can you drink?" "Water, juice, soda, milk... Anything but Osake, kohi, and ocha" (alcohol, coffee, and tea) She brought out some juice. And we explained what we knew about God. About prophets, and Joseph Smith and the Book of Mormon. I gave her one in Japanese, and she gave me a question and answer book about Tenrikyo in English. (random: Kimura shimai just came in and gave us chocolate chip pancakes and wheat tea. Wheat tea is okay. It's actually super amazing. Nothing like some Mugicha on a cold p-day) We told her we had to go, she said she'd come to English class, and that we could visit anytime. We'll baptize her for sure.... :) On Saturday we went and played indoor soccer with Ryotaro and his friends. Let's just say it's been a while since I've soccered. No scored on me when I was goalie, and I almost made three shots it.... but somehow I missed. Everyone was super nice to me though. If I did an awful pass, the other team would let it roll by until it got to one of my teammates. Laugh. It would've been embarrassing if I cared. But, instead it was just fun. I got to talk with a lot of them when we took breaks. One of them stayed after to talk with us. He asked us what we were doing here, we said we teach English and about our Religion. We invited him to come to our English class. He said in broken English; "In English... No interest. But I want to hear.. religion!" I laughed. Usually we teach people English so they'll be interested in our religion. Man. IT'S CRAZY. So we got his phone number. Later that night Ryotaro invited us over for dinner with him and Mami, and Mami's friend Aiya. We were with Ryotaro in the car when we picked up Aiya-San. Ryotaro told us to only speak in English, and pretend not to understand Japanese. This is how it went down. She got it the car. (I'll put the Japanese in [brackets] and the English without) Her: "Konnichiwa!" Us: "Hello!" Her: "[oh] Hello!" To Ryotaro "[Do they not speak..? Well of course. They're foreign.]" Us: "How are you?" Her: "[oh, how do you say it?] I'm fine thank you. [Was that right? Oh, I don't know.] How are you?" Us: "We're good. We're pretty excited to eat octopus tonight." Her: To Ryotaro "[What in the world did they just say?]" Ryotaro: "[They're excited to eat octopus tonight]" Her: to us: "[oh it sould be very good. I love cooking.]" We pretended to be very confused. Her: "[oh. you probably didn't understand that.. um.. how do you say it?... um.]" Ryotaro: to us: "Now." Me: "[Probably:] I like to cook. [or something like] Cooking is fun. [There's a lot of different ways to say it.] Her: "[Oh, I get it... wait! How?!... You can speak?]" Then we all burst up laughing. Boden Choro: "[We actually speak Japanese pretty decently.]" Me:"[It was Ryotaro's idea.]" Then she punched him. Good stuff. We made Cabbage pancakes (so delicious. Seriously.) and octopus balls. It was all amazing. I probably couldn't have enjoyed it when I first got here, but man. It was good. Then at the end, we taught them all a lesson. And instantly, we had three new investigators. Mami and her friend seemed pretty interested, but we're still not sure about Ryotaro. We taught them about the nature of God, and how we can talk with Him though prayer. We taught them how to pray. Normally three new investigators a week doesn't happen in our mission. (the standard of excellence is 1 new investigator per week.) So the Assistants texted us letting us know how awesome we are. But it's seriously all the Lord. We did our weekly planning for this next week and we've got five PI's and quite a few investigators as well. Truly the Lord is giving to us success. Murokoshi-San took an interesting turn. She said she just skimmed the reading about baptism, and that she came up with an idea, and wrote about it in her study journal. She said that almost everything we were teaching her was exactly the same as the Buddhist beliefs. She said she was surprised at how similar everything was. She asked "We all believe in the same God." "Well, yes." I answered. "(With different images of Him)" I said in my mind. She said "When then. I think, that we all do believe in the same God, and that He just put different people in different places to be taught His teaching in the best way for them. Christ for the Europeans, and [some Buddhist person] for the Buddhists... So what you're teaching me is good for you, but also true." I was silent. I know that she believes in Christ. She herself said she has faith in Him. So why? I think she's caught between what she's been taught her whole life, and the truth of what we're actually teaching her. Boden Choro was excellent and heard her out and said it was a good thought, and worked his way back to the restoration and Joseph Smith, and then I came in, and I hammered. And to my regret, I fear I may have hammered too hard. "He asked God, 'Which Church is right?' and God answered him: 'none'. Other Churches disagree, so how can they all be right? There is one God, and one way, and this is the way. You can pray to God and ask Him. I promise that He'll answer you." We both testified. Boden Choro's was solid, like always. I tried to commit her to pray and come to church, but she avoided. She tried to give us back the Book of Mormon to teach someone else with it. We told her we had a lot, and that she could keep it. Sigh.... I thanked her for the peanuts and made her laugh by telling that my older brother would die if he ate any, and that I'd always offer him candy with peanuts in it. It lightened the mood, and she told us that we were welcome to come back again. Before we left she asked us a question that I could tell was aching at her heart. "Do you... You know... Do you guys pray to your ancestors?" I felt like we were breaking her heart. All the truth and light that she was finding in the Gospel, was so different from all of the lifelong comforts and beliefs that she'd held so close to her. I paused. Words heavy in my mouth... "No. We don't." I said, quickly adding. "But we do believe our ancestors are very important. We do all sorts of work for them. And I personally believe we can feel their love, and that they are the means by which God helps us." My last words softened the blow. But it she still looked a little hurt. GaH! She needs this, and she knows this is true. I know she does. I can see it in her eyes. She is so pure in heart that the Spirit is as clear as crystal to her, and she can't deny the existence and power of Christ, but she's afraid. She's walking in uncharted territory. And to make it though she'll have to leave behind many pieces of a belief that has comforted her more than anything else. She's caught between two religions, her warm childhood memory and ancestral belief, and the new truth and light of the Gospel. She needs this. She is the elect of the Lord. Pray for her to have comfort, and courage. I love her too much, and I can't even fathom how much the Lord loves her... So, if there is any amount of birthday and Christmas presents that I can give up for this one favor, I'll do it gladly: "Pray for her." She needs this. Anyways. Not this week, but next week I'm doing an special email... Since the time is coming up for many people who are currently in High school and otherwise, to go on a mission, I'm going to do a special next week all about how to prepare for a mission. Before I left I was completely lost on how to get ready even physically, let alone how to prepare myself spiritually. So... I'll do that next week. Tell you friends, it's gunna be BIG! とにかく I love you all!

Tuesday, January 21, 2014

I love this! I don't want this to ever end.

So this week has been pretty grand.
We got the transfer call last night, and to be honest, it was probably the
most boring transfer call I've received.
Hoops Choro answers, he puts it on speaker, and the President tells Olsen
Choro he's going to Kitakami, and Hoops Choro that he's getting a pretty
young missionary.
Then he turns to us (the conversation to us... not literally turning...)
"Elder Wheelwright, Elder Boden, can you both here?"
"Yes President!"
"You're going to stay the same."
Boden Choro and I look at each other, and smile.
"Sounds good."
"Alright! Take care!"

Six more weeks. Man. I'm actually really happy. I love my companion, and I
love Tsuruoka. I love the people we have, and things were just starting to
pick up.
So it was our turn this week to head down to Sakata. We taught
Kimura-Shimai's sister Nagoiya-San. She came to church last week and this
week as well. She's so amazing. She made us egg sandwiches and we taught
her about the Spirit. She's amazing. Her husband recently died so
everything has been been a little more difficult for her. But she loves to
study, and makes the thirty minute drive every Sunday. Amazing.
WO! so some snow just fell off the roof which reminds me of what one of the
members told me:
"Be careful walking around this week. Two people have died this week in
Tsuruoka because of the snow."
"What?! How? Did they freeze?"
"No. Snow from the roofs of buildings fell on them and crushed them."

Alright, back to Sakata. We visited and taught the Honda family after.
(Yes, Honda. Like the car.) There's 4 generations of mother-daughters. The
great-grandma, the grandma, the mother and the daughter all live under the
same roof. The mom has two little daughters around 4 and 2 years old. Sora,
and Toa. They're usually super quiet and scared of us, but we started
playing with some of their toys with them and they warmed up to us. In to
time Toa was screaming and jumping up and down and Sora was making giving
us plastic food for our tea party. Little kid Japanese is the cutest. It's
so much shorter because you don't have to be polite. It was so simple to
speak.
I got to teach Murokoshi (Muro, not ra) San twice this week. Once on a
split with Hoops Choro, and the second time yesterday I was praying like
crazy before Hoops and I went over. I was a little frightened. Last time
we'd talked about the Atonement just a little, and she told us "I'm not so
sure if I can believe this."
Boden Choro and I decided that we had to teach her about Christ before we
could move on. But how do you teach a devout Buddhist that some far away
Man, know and loves her, and suffered for her sins? ... Well... You pray...
a lot.
So we headed over. We rang, slid the door open and walked in to her Genkan.
We talked about ささいな things and then I gave an opening pray, pleading that
the Spirit would help her to learn, and us to teach.
I asked her if she'd read third Nephi 11 like we'd asked. She ran into the
other room and came back with her Book of Mormon, with tabs sticking out
every where. She said she read some (and I later learned that 'some' was
her being humble. She read it all and reread and pondered the scriptures
we'd shared last time) and she read us a question from her study journal.
"Who is 'I' in verse 11? The person who said that they are "the light and
life of the world"? And who is the Father it talks about?"
I responded "That is the Savior, Jesus Christ. And the Father is our
Heavenly Father, who is also called God."
She stood silent for a second, and then I light came across her face, and
she looked happy.
"Oooh. He suffered for us. So we wouldn't have to. Alright. I understand."
I was shocked. "Murokoshi-san," I asked slowly "Do you believe that Jesus
Christ is your Savior?"
"...Yes. I do."
I almost passed out, bust up laughing, and cried at the same time. But
luckily I did none of those three. Then she continued.
"Isn't it wonderful that He did that for us, that He took our sins? No
wonder you want to share it with everyone. Think of all of the people who
don't know this."
It was one of those moments when I couldn't stop smiling.
We expounded on the Atonement and told her we'd come back next time and
teach her about the Gospel of Christ, the way we can be saved. She said
she'd study more to be prepared.
GAH!!! I love her. She's perfect! Once we rounded the street corner I
screamed and started laughing "AHHH!!! She believes in Christ! She believes
in our Savior!!" We were laughing almost all the way home.

So, we helped Takuo-san shovel for the third time. He's this skinny little
60 year old man. We scraped, broke ice, shoveled, and dumped it in the
river until he said (in English) "Enough. You have done enough."
We helped him put away the shovels and I told him that I'd like to hear him
play the piano. He said (in Japanese) "Why not now?"
He invited us in. He had a REAL piano. Only the second one I'd seen.
(Hanzawa-San's was the first) And he had an electric as well. He had shelves
full of music. His wife brought out rice crackers and lemonade. He started
playing after putting heaters right in-front of both of us. It was
beautiful. He played us a bunch of classics.
"Where did you learn to play?" I asked. "How long did you have to take lessons?"
He laughed. "I never took a lesson. I learned by myself."
It was amazing. I brought up religion, as the topic turned towards it.
"What religion are you?"
"Well, I've got a Buddhist shrine on the first floor, and on the
second floor I've got a Shinto shrine, then if you look behind you," I
did. There was a nativity and a statue of the virgin Mary. "I've got
that as well."
He dodged the question very well. He said he went to a Catholic church
when he was little even though he was Buddhist, and he said he was
volunteered by one of the Buddhist priests to be a worker at the
temple/ shrine.
I told him we'd come by again and I'd bring some of my music (Hymns)
to play for him, and that we'd bring our guitars and visit him again.
He said okay. Boden Choro had us finish up with a prayer. He got
confused despite Boden Choro's explanation. He didn't close his eyes,
or bow despite how Elder Boden taught him. Meh. We'll see how that
goes.
We visited another PI. The young couple Ryotaro and Mami. He invited
us in and we ate dinner with them. Boden Choro told him about
transfers and he got a little worried. He gave us each a photo album-
"In case you leave." He told us. Then he gave us both soccer jerseys
as a present, and told us to come and play soccer again with him and
his friends on Saturday if we didn't get transferred. When we called
them and told them that we weren't getting transferred they got way
excited. Mami requested me as a friend on facebook. I told her my mom
would probably accept the request. They said they'd come and visit us
in America in five years when they finally got enough money. They're
amazing. They said they'd told their friends about us and they all
wanted to meet us. They invited them to come to our English Class and
our Ping-Pong night. So we're hoping.
We then taught Murokoshi-San again.
She accepted repentance in a second. She talked about how wonderful it
was, that our sins could be taken from us. We then taught about
Baptism.
We showed her a picture and Boden Choro started asking her (and I
don't blame him) why Christ had to get baptized if He was perfect. She
looked confused. I asked:
"Murokoshi-san, Have you ever heard of baptism before?"
"... never."
We explained about how it was a symbol, and how it washed our sins
away from us. She got confused. "Isn't repentance enough?" We read the
section about baptism in the pamphlet. She got even more confused.
"Forgive me... I just don't understand."
I spoke "There are a lot of difficult words, so it's..."
"I understand all of the words, but I just don't understand why."
We said we'd think of a better way to explain it. She said she'd study
the pamphlet some more, and we gave her Mosiah 18 to study. Whew...
Pray for her to understand, and for us to be able to teach in this
language. gah.. I love her. She needs this.
I love this! I love my mission. There's nothing I'd rather be doing.
I had a dream that I got sick and had to go home, and it probably was
the scariest dream I've had. Shutter. (No offence family. But I've got
work to do)
I don't want this to ever end. :)
I love you all! (If you Email me I'll email you... I'll try my best to
email you!)

Thursday, January 9, 2014

JAPANESE NEW YEAR!

はい!皆さん、こにちわ!
今週の手紙のために日本語だけ書いています!
ごめんね、
冗談です!!!
eigode
In English
Okay!!! 
SO.... THIS WEEK WAS NEW YEARS!
So, in America, Christmas happens to be the big deal. As I expressed previously, this is no so in Japan. So  this may be true, but for New Years, (pause for effect) it's a different story. 
The story starts as thus: 
We got a call from the Zone Leaders, informing us that this week would be the week of all 0's. We laughed. 
Monday, we bought cleaning supplies. 
1st Japanese tradition: The new year's clean. Okisoji. Big Clean. Tuesday we went to town on the apartment. We were told to cut language study from our morning schedule in order to get all of the cleaning done. There was scraping of shower mold, and organizing of pamphlets that I didn't know existed. It was intense. 
Wednesday was the new years day: Our instructions were to find someone to go to a jinjya with.

Wind at the Ocean
(A Japanese Shrine) and have a culture learning experience. So. We did. Three days in a row with different people... 
1st- branch members took us. The night before it was storming like crazy. It carried on. There was icy rain and the loudest kaminari (lighting/thunder- in japan they are the same word because they're always so close to you that they happen at the same time!) that I've ever heard in my life. Windows shook and the sound wave shot though us all. It looked nice at first. 
2nd- We went with an investigator to a shrine in the mountains. It's apparently the biggest shrine in Tsuruoka. (I probably told you this but, Tsuruoka means Crane Hill) There was snow, creepy statues, and... snow. (also giant bells). He also took us to the ocean, where we went on this Island Shrine across this bimiyo bridge. I have never seen waves like that in my entire life. If you fall... you die. yay. 
3rd- We went with a young, just barely married, PI couple. Ryottaro and Mami. They explained all of the reasons for the different things we did at the shrine. We got our fortunes for this is. Dai kuchi. be jealous.  

Here's how you... um... do.. the shrine thingy. And apparently it's different depending on where you go in Japan. So here's the Tsuruoka way. 
So you first get your family to come with you. New Years a holiday all about family. 
Next you enter the shrine area.
You walk though a giant gate called a Tori gate. This represents leaving this world, with all of it's cares and worries, and entering into a different one. You don't walk directly though the gate, but rather on the sides. The center is for God(s?) to enter and leave. Though Ryottaro told us many Japanese people don't know this. 
Next is the washing.
Brother Sato does a good explanation of this, and I also got a video of Olsen Choro and I washing ourselves in the frozen ice of the mountain jinjya. 
There's this alter like table fountain thing with a slowly dripping constant stream of water flowing into it (sometimes out of dragons mouths, sometime out of bamboo, kinda different at each shrine). The water pools and there are a bunch of ladle like things, most often made of wood, resting on a pole going across the water. 
You fill the ladle with water from the pool, and pour it on your left hand, then your right, and then scoop some water in your hand, and wash around (or inside) your mouth. (inside was drinking and spitting it out) 
Ryottaro (who doesn't know anything about our church or Christianity told us): "You must clean yourself before you go to converse, and meet with God. Not literally clean, but it's a symbol. This represents not only cleaning your hands, but purifying your heart." 
After your purified you then go to the actual shrine house thing. You walk up reverently and pull this giant rope which rings a bell. This is to let God know that you've made it. To let Him know you've come. Then you throw a coin into this wooden case in front of you. (Representing your willingness to sacrifice for God was Ryottaro's guess, but he didn't know for sure.)  You then bow before God. You clap your hands twice solemnly, and bow again with your palms together. Then you whisper your prayer to God. Normally people pray for their families, for success, or for health. You stand up, clap one more time and bow really low to express your humility and gratitude. 
That's it! 
Then you go to a stand where these people are selling trinkets that do various things like Improve your health, or give you better grades. (they also have arrows that you keep in your house.
Arrows that are supposed to kill the demon. (satan!)) There as well you do various things to get a fortune for the year. (this year is the year of the Horse, by the way.) My comp and I went fishing for one, and Ryottaro and Mami shook a thing full of sticks. 
Boden choro and I both got Dai kuchi. We pulled it out of the little wooden fish's mouth and showed it to them to read. Mami read mine and freaked out. "DAI KUCHI!... oh. This the the very best fortune." Boden Choro showed Ryottaro his. He had a similar reaction. 
They both got "so-so" fortunes, which they say is normal. 
If you get a good fortune like we did, you keep it. If you get a bad one,
you go and tie it onto a fence next to the shrine. You leave your bad fortune with God, and pray that He will take care of it. That He'll take the bad fate from you. 
People also write little wishes on these wooden blocks with painting of the horse on them. They hang it on another fence hoping that God will grant them. 
Anywho. I'll send you some pictures!